A bride and groom exchanging rings under a garden gazebo while Frank Booysen conducts the ceremony behind them

Registered marriage officer · KwaZulu-Natal

It’s not about me. It’s 100% your day.

Modern, relaxed ceremonies written around your story, with every piece of the legal paperwork handled properly. Frank Booysen, ordained pastor and marriage officer since 1999.

In his own words

I don’t conduct long-winded weddings.

Frank Booysen laughing with a couple during an outdoor ceremony
“Weddings are happy occasions, and one of life’s big moments.”

You’ve booked your venue, your photographer, your videographer and your DJ. You still need someone to actually marry you. Let’s have a coffee and plan a ceremony you’d genuinely want to sit through.

I conduct modern, contemporary ceremonies that you and your guests will enjoy. I don’t talk excessively. In my opinion it’s not about the marriage officer. It’s about the couple, and it’s 100% your day.

I tailor the message to each couple. We can take the moments you’ve shared and weave them into the ceremony, so what’s said up front actually sounds like you.

Diploma in Theology, 1995. Ordained 1999. Over 25 years of marrying people across KwaZulu-Natal.

How the day runs

A wedding order of ceremony.

A couple recently asked what’s actually in a ceremony, how long it takes, and what’s optional. Here’s the shape of it. Yours can differ at every step.

Most ceremonies run 25–35 minutes. Nothing here is compulsory except the vows, the register and the pronouncement.

  1. 01Entrance of the bride
  2. 02Who gives this woman
  3. 03Welcome & introduction
  4. 04Opening prayer optional
  5. 05Reading optional
  6. 06The message modern or traditional
  7. 07Marriage vows
  8. 08Your own vows optional
  9. 09Exchanging rings
  10. 10Signing the marriage register
  11. 11Pronouncement
  12. 12Kiss the bride
  13. 13Presentation: Mr & Mrs

Ceremonies

Bushveld, beach, garden, chapel.

From the smallest chapel in South Africa to a sandbank on the North Coast.

White chairs set out beneath a flat-topped acacia before a bushveld ceremony Guests seated along a palm-lined aisle on the beach A groom in a teal suit celebrating with his bride after the ceremony A couple kissing beneath a floral arch with the ocean behind them Frank conducting an outdoor ceremony as the bride stands with her veil down A couple exchanging vows inside a timber chapel dressed with flowers A wedding party gathered in a golden field under a parasol Frank holding the microphone for a groom during the vows

What couples say

Love stories, in their words.

“I’ll never forget when you gently asked me, ‘Where should I stand so I don’t block your camera during the ceremony?’ In that moment I was stunned in the best way. Most of the time we are limited during ceremonies, but with you it was the complete opposite. That smile, your warmth, and the way your words touched both heart and soul left no one unmoved. We are proud to tell the world that we had the best pastor.”

Christo & Alla Wedding photographers, first met Frank at The Venue Shongweni

“Thank you for the lovely way in which you conducted their wedding yesterday. It set the relaxed, friendly atmosphere for the rest of the day.”

Sue Watkin Mother of the bride, Talloula, Botha’s Hill

“From the time we got in contact with him he has gone above and beyond to ensure the wedding is as easy and painless as possible. He brings a relaxing atmosphere so the focus is on you and your spouse. If we could, we’d use him again!”

Julian & Kimberley Letard

“You did such an amazing job, and we couldn’t have imagined anything more perfect. Everyone complimented you and couldn’t stop saying how great you were. You’ll always have a very special place in our hearts.”

A couple married in November 2022

Investment

Three ways I can marry you.

Every wedding is different. Tell me your date and your venue and I will send you an exact figure, usually the same day.

Legal registration only

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The legal registration of your marriage, without a formal ceremony.

Mini ceremony

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A simplified ceremony for a smaller gathering, with no full procession or music.

Full wedding ceremony

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Pre-ceremony meetings, rehearsal if needed, the ceremony itself, and all legal paperwork handled.

What you pay depends on how far I travel and what your day needs. Ask me and I will quote you properly, with no obligation.

Available dates

Let’s have a coffee and plan it.

Tell Frank your date and your venue. He’ll come back to you the same day.